Aside from that how do they treat each other. I mean is he controlling, possesive, treat her like ish. Or is he good to her. I don't understand what the problem is. Sometimes age ain't nothin' but a number.
What if she was with a 23 or 24 y. It's not my thing and it kind of grosses me out but I have a friend who don't discriminate when it comes to age. She is actually in her late 20's and has a child with a man who is about I personally prefer and older man bc some of them know what they want out of life I'm naturally attracted to an older man Well, we hope those old men are marrying you.
Because if not, you will be like those women on ABC Nightline approaching their mid 30s and still single. All the while, looking at the year olds dating guys in your age range with a different perspective. I remember one LSA poster who dated a ton of older guys. I haven't heard anything about a wedding, but there is a baby. If she was in her mid to late 20s its okay, but at 21 you are just getting started in adulthood thats how I see it. At 38, that man knows the game and could play it pretty well Plus he may want kids and marriage very soon.
At 21, you may not even think of wedding bells or being pregnant. But then again, there are some people at 21 who have old souls and may be able to connect more with older people I've been told that this is far and few between. If thats the case, then it can work but it will take a lot of commitment because of what may be around you. I thought that going up to 30 was kind of old I'm 24 , but I guess not. You must log in or sign up to reply here.
Share This Page Tweet. Your name or email address: So I don't see a problem with a 22yr old dating a 38yr old. Who are we to judge, right? My husband is 9 years older than I am. I am 24, we started dating when I was My best friends husband is 11 years older than her, she is They started dating when she was Ignoring the mid life crisis folks you learn to spot them fairly quickly one of the things I like BEST about older men is:. They know WHO they are.
They know what they want out of life. In general, they don't care what other people think a good thing, meaning that if they like you, they like you There's very little in the way of surprises. There's very little guess work with a man in his prime.
Will she marry him? That's a whole other series of issues cart and horse They are just going to date, so I dont think you should worry about it too much. She'll decide whether she likes him or not. I'm sure he's happy to be dating a much younger gal, but time will sort out whether they are truly suited for the long haul, and she can't know till she tries. She IS 22, so there isnt much you can do. I was 22 when I married my first husband, he was And my husband now is 8 yrs older than I am. Like you said, she's mature for her age, and he's probably a little immature for his age, so they might blend just fine.
I think she is grown and she is able to do as she pleases But then again idk why she is still living at home Unless she in in school or something I am 22 also, and my hubby is But our circumstances are way different than hers but she should be fine I think much depends on the individuals, if they really have things in common, if they are in a similar place in life. I met my DH when I was just shy of 23 dated a year later, after we became friends and we married when I was 26 and he As far as the attraction, he didn't know I was only 22 when we met.
He thought I was older and I thought he was younger.
Sometimes it's not about looking for a hot young thang or having a daddy complex. Things to consider down the road include children does he have any? Much like any other relationship. I do worry more about when my husband is old I watched my grandmother take care of her husband - 17 yrs her senior - in his last years but day to day I don't think about his age and vice versa.
My husband is 17 years older than me, and he's awesome.
Not just the best guy I've ever dated, but the best guy I've ever known. That said, I do have to crack the whip on him sometimes, lol. Yeah, we have had some issues to discuss and figure out planning the retirement situation, yes he'll probably die at a ripe old age but before me, etc Being a mother's girl doesn't make someone mature though; don't know her situation and not going to try to judge it, but being mature is more than talking to adults. There are a lot of people 35 years old that have no idea who they are and are in therapy trying to reevaluate.
There are some 25 year olds that have lived a lot of life and have a solid foundation on who they are, what they want, where they're going. My concern about someone dating an older person when they're very young is that they could define themselves by the relationship, or lose their identity before they know what it is, trying to fit into a mold the other expects of them. If she's solid as a person, and he's interested for the right reasons, age shouldn't be a problem. I began dating my husband when I was 24, but I'd dated "forever", I was active in school, I did the whole excessive partying thing and lived on the street a few months, I went to school again, traveled to 6 countries before meeting him, was very active in volunteer work and had my own career.
I'd experienced a lot of things, and knew who I was. That, to me, is mature. I wouldn't have a problem if my kid, at that stage, dated someone older.
But if they didn't know who they were yet, I'd be leery of someone wanting to "shape" them. From a young girls perspective I am 20 I dated a guy 8 years older than me and I did not like it at all. He was very controlling and used our age difference against me, but around other people he seemed like mister perfect. Plus after a little while I just noticed that we didn't have much in common.
I think after awhile it might start to bug her, it did me but I had waited so long that it was hard to find the right time to really break things apart and it made me miserable and in the end we couldn't even be friends anymore cause it had gotten so bad. I had just turned 21 when I met my now husband he was My parents really did not like him much we were 1st together.
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